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<p>During the recent funeral, I took the opportunity to snap away some photographs for memory. Most of them were to remain private although a fair few are on show on the following pages.</p>
<p>Click <a href="http://www.harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/2012/3/28/01.html">here</a> to start things off, and then manually go through until the end. There are 54 photos all together, complete with narratives. Alternatively, please click here &lt;to be added&gt; to be taken to my photoblog page for a random slideshow of the collection.</p>
<p>Thanks for indulging.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">Dadi passed away at around 10 pm, Sunday 25th March 2012, at Mami Lah's house in Seberang Jaya. As soon as I heard the news, we made plans to leave for Penang. I drove at midnight with Mak and Ba. Julia followed suit with her family in a convoy. We reached Seberang Jaya just before 4 am.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/rss-comments-entry-15627008.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>02</title><dc:creator>Haris Abdul Rahman</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 14:39:23 +0000</pubDate><link>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/2012/3/28/02.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">321467:16039842:15627002</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://harisrahman.com/storage/post-images/Dadi 02.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1332945581262" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Mak reading the Quran with my cousin, Ajilah. By the time Dadi was ready for her final bathing, we managed to finish the Quran.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/rss-comments-entry-15627002.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>03</title><dc:creator>Haris Abdul Rahman</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 14:38:29 +0000</pubDate><link>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/2012/3/28/03.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">321467:16039842:15626987</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://harisrahman.com/storage/post-images/Dadi 03.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1332945529531" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">The look on my Uncle, Mamu Kabeer said it all. He travelled a day earlier from Nilai as soon as he heard that Dadi took a turn for the worse. Right behind him was my youngest uncle, Mamu Mi. He had been around since earlier in the day, during the final hours of arwah.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/rss-comments-entry-15626987.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>04</title><dc:creator>Haris Abdul Rahman</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 14:37:43 +0000</pubDate><link>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/2012/3/28/04.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">321467:16039842:15626981</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://harisrahman.com/storage/post-images/Dadi 04.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1332945481402" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">My Dad, Ba. He was asleep all the way up from Kuala Lumpur while I was driving. He was the second in the family. And he looked the freshest.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/rss-comments-entry-15626981.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>05</title><dc:creator>Haris Abdul Rahman</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 14:36:48 +0000</pubDate><link>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/2012/3/28/05.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">321467:16039842:15626965</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://harisrahman.com/storage/post-images/Dadi 05.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1332945437530" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Ba stayed at my Aunt's place, while me, Mak with Julia and her family checked into a nearby hotel, catching some much needed sleep. I managed a couple of hours, before waking up to rearrannge my clinic.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/rss-comments-entry-15626965.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>06</title><dc:creator>Haris Abdul Rahman</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 14:35:56 +0000</pubDate><link>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/2012/3/28/06.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">321467:16039842:15626962</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://harisrahman.com/storage/post-images/Dadi 06.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1332945375286" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">The crowd had already gathered when I brought Mak and the rest of the family to Mami Lah's house the next morning. All the immediate family were there, including a number of my cousin's. We were waiting for the bathing then.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/rss-comments-entry-15626962.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>07</title><dc:creator>Haris Abdul Rahman</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 14:34:48 +0000</pubDate><link>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/2012/3/28/07.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">321467:16039842:15626948</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://harisrahman.com/storage/post-images/Dadi 07.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1332945306072" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">This is Imran. He is Julia's eldest, my nephew. He is 12, the same age when Dadi's husband, my Dada passed away in 1984.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/rss-comments-entry-15626948.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>08</title><dc:creator>Haris Abdul Rahman</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 14:34:00 +0000</pubDate><link>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/2012/3/28/08.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">321467:16039842:15626943</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://harisrahman.com/storage/post-images/Dadi 08.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1332945259011" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Me, in my sarong and Crocs. For easy menouvering.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/rss-comments-entry-15626943.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>09</title><dc:creator>Haris Abdul Rahman</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 14:33:10 +0000</pubDate><link>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/2012/3/28/09.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">321467:16039842:15626927</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://harisrahman.com/storage/post-images/Dadi 09.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1332945213066" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">The curtains on the right side was up. Dadi would be having her final bath there, by the lady members of my family.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://harisrahman.com/dadis-final-journey/rss-comments-entry-15626927.xml</wfw:commentRss></item></channel></rss>